Today, I want to talk about change... and how it is always happening. My inspiration for this post is my friend, who recently was having a tough time dealing with changes (mainly in his friends) in his life. He has been getting stressed out about it, and I just wanted to write this as almost a clarification.
Change happens constantly. To all of us... particularly our friends, over the years. Hell, in a WEEK you can notice change in your friends. No one stays the same forever, and as time goes on, you WILL find yourself drifting away from your friends. People make their own choices in life... choices that are THEIRS and not yours to control. You make your own choices as well, and with these choices, you will sometimes lose friends. One of my friends began dating a girl, and he lost his best friend because of it... jealousy is one hell of an emotion. However, it was HIS choice to begin dating the girl, and his friend (if she truly was his friend) should not have just ditched him because of it... you don't do that to a friend. It was his choice, not hers, and she made the decision to not have him in her life anymore because of it. Likewise, he made the decision to not make an effort to get her back as a friend. What it comes down to is we all have choices. They are OUR choices, and our's alone... but they often times affect those around us. Before we make a choice, we have to think about ourselves... but also those close to us, because our choices make changes, and change... change affects everyone. Maddie
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