This post began as a poem, the one I have below. I wrote it due to an issue I had with one of my friends- many hurtful accusations got tossed around in our argument, and it hurt. I don't want this post to be bitchy, hurtful, or more insults to that person. In my opinion, our fight was pointless and could have been avoided easily. The reason why this post is entitled "fake friends" is because that is sort of what this person is.
As stated below- they aren't ever there for me; even though I find myself dropping everything to help them. They make no efforts to make plans. They don't respond to calls or texts. They choose to hit you when you're down. And it sucks. Unfortunately, I'm the person who gives too many second chances and so when I meet a friend like this, I tend to let them bring me down and I don't realize how bad things are until they reach a critical point. At that critical point; should it ever be reached... you have to make a choice. You can either continue the toxic friendship; and probably wind up getting hurt more and used more... or you can discard it and get on with your life. That is the choice I need to make now... wish me luck in making the correct one. The moral of this strange post; I believe... is to be a good friend. Not to discard friendships, and not to argue, but to be a good and helpful friend... as long as the other person does the same. Friendship is a two-way street. ~Maddie When you're always there for them, but they aren't for you When you want to chill, but they have better things to do You want to tell them every single thing, But they pick up for everyone but you when their cellphone rings When you pick them right up should they ever fall down, But they trod all over you when you're lying on the ground When you would rather die than watch them cry, But when you get down they never try They don't understand, they don't lend a hand They just fade away, like footprints in sand They take you and use you, They hurt and abuse you And yet you still stay In the hopes that one day... maybe, they'll change.
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