This quote is so true.
Through my life, I've had friends come and go. I'd like to share a story with you. It's about what happened to my best friend and I; and while I may have told it before... I'd like to touch on it once again. I have known this girl for four years. She has been like a sister to me, supporting me through everything and always standing by my side. She picks me up when I'm down and is my light in darkness. My eyes when I can't see and ears when I can't hear. In any case, awhile ago we had a lull of four months where we weren't talking; due to her boyfriend of the time. This guy had seemed to be good for her when they first started going out. I had even been pretty close friends with him prior to the drama that happened. Then, he got jealous of our close friendship and started feeding her a lot of lies about me, labeling me as controlling and a liar. In all honesty; when she asked for opinions on him- I told her the truth. I told her I could see it ending and that he was manipulating her and making her lose friends- which he was. Give it a month, and he made it so she couldn't talk to me- or anyone but him. It was horrible. Our friendship was a wreck for those few months and it was quite a dark period for me. I got depressed and ended up making a friend who didn't have any of my best interests in mind. Fortunately, they broke up and we made up... she said I had been right and that their relationship had fell apart quickly because she had no one to turn to besides him. In the end, all the turmoil made our friendship stronger- and I can't be any more thankful for that. We're back to being best friends and are inseparable. We now live by the "sisters before misters" rule- if a guy has a problem with one of us, he can either not associate with them and deal with us being friends or LEAVE. Relationships shouldn't be controlling. They should be caring and understanding... and that is the bottom line. ~Maddie
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