Alrighty. I actually have a rant for today.
For awhile now, one of my friends (we'll call him Z) has liked two different girls, X and Y. Now, since Z is young and is at a good point in his life to date; this shouldn't be too much of an issue, correct? INCORRECT. Allow me to explain the two different situations to you. X has feelings for Z and Z knows this. They talk to each other as if they are a couple, but they are long distance and X doesn't want to date him because she is afraid of hurting him due to her dangerous and toxic past. He has asked X out 3 times; and she has rejected him each time. However; she keeps him around and still talks to him like a boyfriend out of sheer convenience and because it needs no commitment from her point of view. Y also has feelings for Z. In fact; they've dated in the past and it went smoothly; besides the fact that Z originally though he loved her only as a friend. After losing her completely, he realized he loved her as more. They're now friends again, but that's what it remains. He knows of her feelings and has told her his. They both like each other a lot; HOWEVER Z will not date Y due to X saying she was jealous of their relationship after their breakup. He has quoted to her that "he doesn't want to be in a relationship because he is afraid X will get hurt and he can't do that to her". Now, I call absolute bullshit on Z. If Y has clear feelings for you, and you have clear feelings for her- DO IT! Especially when you know she won't reject you. But no. You're scared of X being hurt- when she has rejected you three times and clearly if she cared that much about you and wanted you so badly would have claimed her territory. It's not that complicated. Go for who's there for you; not for who just keeps you around as a booty call. Good night. ~Maddie
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